Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. Nearly one in five people experience suicidal thoughts in their lifetime, and suicide is the most common cause of death for men under 50. Suicide is on the rise in communities of color and among teenagers. People living with mental health conditions and addictions are more likely to consider suicide. Still, so many people with mental health problems are made to feel ashamed or worthless because of their illnesses.

With nearly one in five people living with mental illness at any given time in the United States, it is possible that someone you know right now has a mental health problem. Take the time today to ask a loved one how they’re doing: it could change their life. So many people who are considering suicide do so because they feel alone in their depression, in their anxiety, in their addiction. Let the people in your life know that you care about them; tell them that you love them and need them in your life. Let the people you care about know that their lives matter, that their existence matters and that their lives are worth living. Let the people you care about know that they are not alone.

It is important to know that if someone you love is thinking about suicide, it is okay to talk about that. It is okay to use the word “suicide” when dealing with someone considering his or her own death. Using the word “suicide” will not put the idea in that person’s head. Be direct and tell them how losing them will affect you. So often, people considering suicide believe that they are a burden on those they love, on the world. Make sure your loved one knows this is not true. Make sure your loved one knows that they are important to you for so many reasons.

If you or a loved one is experiencing suicidal thoughts, please call 1.800.273.TALK. You also may text the Crisis Text Line at 741 741 for assistance or dial 911 for immediate help.